About Jo Tocher

I help you transform the trauma of losing your baby.

Baby Loss Awareness Week – 9-15th October

Each Year on 9-15th October, it's Baby Loss Awareness Week What does this mean?  It's a week where awareness is given to the silent, often taboo subject of Baby Loss - whether that's an early miscarriage, late miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy or Stillbirth. Who is it for? Parents, don't need a week to remember their losses, [...]

By |2019-10-07T19:04:52+00:00October 7th, 2019|Baby Loss, BLOG, MISCARRIAGE, Women, Your Voice|0 Comments

A kaleidoscope of blame

Blame can be felt after a loss when feelings of sadness, hurt, and probably anger occur, and we look to someone to be accountable. This can be levelled at your partner, the medical sector or ourselves. Self-blame is common after miscarriage. Please know that there is very little you could have done to stop your [...]

By |2019-10-07T19:08:09+00:00September 23rd, 2019|BLOG|0 Comments

The Slient Pain of Miscarriage

Are you suffering from the silent pain of miscarriage? You are not alone You feel the pain of loss. The pain of what might have been. The pain of the dreams that were shattered but not forgotten. You’re not alone. Miscarriage affects 1 in 4 women. In the UK that stat would suggest that 2.75 [...]

By |2019-10-07T19:10:48+00:00August 13th, 2019|Baby Loss, BLOG, MISCARRIAGE|0 Comments

Maternal Health

Maternal Health It's Maternal Health week, and I was moved to write a blog about how we hold experiences, such as the trauma of miscarriage, pregnancy loss and traumatic birth in our body. What goes on in our mind affects our body We are mostly forgiven for thinking that we hold this in our mind [...]

By |2019-05-19T18:20:35+00:00May 19th, 2019|BLOG, HEALTH, MISCARRIAGE, Women|0 Comments

MOTHER’S DAY – HOW IT EFFECT’S WOMEN WHO HAVE MISCARRIED

Mother’s Day: Is an opportunity to celebrate the brilliance of our mothers (and mother figures) and strengthen the special bond with our children. But for women around in the UK who have experienced miscarriage, navigating the occasion can be fraught with emotion as we remember the trauma of pregnancy loss. Though miscarriage is often obscured [...]

By |2019-05-19T17:57:20+00:00May 19th, 2019|BLOG, HEALTH, MISCARRIAGE, Women|0 Comments

Letting Go

Letting Go After a miscarriage, pregnancy loss or baby loss of any kind – it’s not easy to let go of it. It permeates your entire being, infiltrating each and every cell of your body with sadness and heaviness and weighs you down. Understandably so, because you’ve been through a heavy blow and an [...]

By |2019-04-12T06:06:10+00:00April 12th, 2019|BLOG, MISCARRIAGE, Women|0 Comments

Is FEAR keeping you stuck?

Do you feel Fear after a Miscarriage? Often after a miscarriage or #babyloss – we feel crippling fear. So much so that it is keeping us stuck and safe. Our Ego, often jumps in to keep us safe, and this is also keeping us stuck. Stuck in the same loop – living a ground-hog [...]

By |2019-03-19T20:05:59+00:00March 19th, 2019|BLOG, HEALTH, MISCARRIAGE, Women|0 Comments